The striving for unity consciousness, the pursuit of merging into "all that is one", and "all that is love", will not save you from the injuries of having had poor boundaries to begin with! When pursued prematurely, this striving is just another expression of dependent and co-dependent behavior and the further pursuit of unhealthy relationships - a manifestation of unhealthy learned dynamics.

You must first learn how to say no to others, as a function of saying yes to "Self" and "God". Once you know who "you" are, you can then connect and merge with the truth of all others. You will experience this Unity Consciousness you seek, only when you find it within yourself first.

(MG)