Children are their own.

First and foremost, your children belong to THEMSELVES, just as you do, to yourself. Your sole job is to love them unconditionally and allow them to grow into THEIR truthful expression.

Do not be scared when they are not as conformist as you. It is not their job to be just like you, especially if you have remained stagnant, in old patterns, beliefs, and ideologies. It is their job to evolve, to take the best of you, to leave the lesser behind, and evolve into something greater. This may cause you fear and discomfort, especially if you have remained stagnant in your process.

Do not be scared of this process, when this expression looks and feels different than what you are used to. Evolution implies growth and change, growth and change implies discomfort. It is a natural process. If you love your children unconditionally, you will allow them to grow into their own truthful expression, even if different from yours. If you love them unconditionally, they will be good people, no matter how different their expression is from yours.

If you are fearless enough, you will evolve with and through your children. If they are fearless enough, they will evolve with OR without you. Wouldn't it be better to go along for the ride together?

(MG)